It's all the same

Alright.
So do you wanna know a little secret pet peeve of mine?


It is when people judge someone they do not know.


YES, I will admit that I have done that before,
but not to this extent.
Everyone has said little things here and there about someone they do not know,
but that doesn't make it right, now does it?


I would l o v e to talk to the people that I need to about this, BUT. My very good friend wants me to keep my mouth shut, I guess until I have her permission I cannot confront these lovely ladies. Anyway, the reason I would want to confront them, is because I have "heard" things they have been saying & I do not rely on what I "hear" so I want to go directly to the source. But, as I've said. My friend does not want me to say anything, and I will have enough respect to do that.


These girls that have been saying things about me and my friends are supposedly "christians" and I'm not denying it, they are GREAT girls. BUT, when they judge my friends and I, when they don't even KNOW us, that is uncalled for . If you hear something about someone, jump to your own conclusions about someone, or say something that may be completely false about someone, could be even worse than what that person did to make you say those things. Do you follow me?


I can give you an example:
If someone steals a loaf of bread.
or so you hear.
& you judge them and say that they aren't "christian" because "christian people" don't do that.
But then you find out that they didn't even steal the bread,
but you don't believe them anyway.
THAT, jumping to conclusions, is worse than the sin of stealing.
Because YOU do not have a place to judge.
Only Jesus Christ our lord and saviour does.


So please, I am trying to be kind here.
PLEASE get to know someone before you judge them.